November 27th, 2005
Someone PLEASE explain to me how having a boyfriend puts your ovaries up on a shelf? Sudden there is no girl time or alone time for that matter. Constently runnign around never home. Bull Shit... I hate when i see so many young women completely killing themselves for a guy. or for any relationship for that matter.
When are we women gonna stand up and realize that relationships do not define us. They are a way to express and experienceourselves but they are NOT US!. you are not your job, your school, your parents, your boyfriend, your friends, your clothes or your car. You are YOU...and the statement "I Am" is SOOO powerful. Lets learn to use it and empower women to the next level!
Come on Girls...lets cheer each other on instead of competing. Lets help one another isntead of back stab. We all know women have the higher intelligence emotionally...lets use it to our advantage!!!!
Thats all I had right now. Respond.
Current Mood: livid
I have a boyfriend right now. But with me and him it's not a "ok we have to see eachother every single day" sort of thing. I stil get the girl time I need. we hang out with my friends a lot and sometimes it's girl time and he just can't come. He doesn't complete me. He just makes me better sort of...he helps me to see how truely beautiful I am. Which is a good thing. Although I must confess he is way diffrent from my last Girlfriend. ((I'm bi)) She was romantic and sweet and would leave me notes. and he is romantic and sweet too...Just in a diffrent way. I guess in this big wall of text I'm just trying to say that he doesn't make me who I am. He makes who I am better...if that makes any sence.
I have a boyfriend right now too...Cris is wonderful...The most glorious thing...he doesnt try to change me. And I think I'm letting go of changing him...I understand relationships...REAL relationships are hard to come by in any situation...or sex. But so many kid themselves...so ready to settle and give up dreams for some man. It breaks my heart. I see it in my own close circle...other girls letting they're relationships define them...and doing anything to keep it...Hell I was there once myself. But...I suddenly stopped treating myself like shit and said "Hey this is My Life"...WHich believe it or not..was really heard. I'm 20 and I feel like I am so far behind on certain things. Maybe it's bc I skipped preschool.
lol...any way...that was striaght ridiculous. I'm sorry for the ramble. Thanks for your comment and keep on...whatever it is you do...which I am now gonna look in your profile to see!
I'm 14 so things arn't REALLY serious. We are kids. Things are as serious as they can get. I love rambles. they give me something to read. Ramble on. I'll listen.
Ah ha...Maybe youre age group is a bit nmore evolved than mine when it coems to this stuff...I find that the girls I assosicates ages 19-25 seem to have kinda of attachment issues with their signifigant others. I think mainly...this is a time a trial for us from our parents. We are all Living at Home with mom and dad while we go to school, living away at school or out of mom and dad's house working full time, maybe school part time and starting a "life. Some girls as young as 20 are married and pregnant...on purpose.
This blows my mind.
When I turn 20 I'm planning on being big and famous and amazing. not pregnant and married. thats when life gets going. I'm not saying they have thrown their life away. It's just not what I'd do.
I have this arguement with my mom...She says terrible things like "having a baby too soon will ruin girls lives"...I tell her thats awfully negative. Some girls want to have babies and be mom's...That's cool...but there's this whole new breed of female warrior coming up. I think having a baby unexpectedly is just that...unexpected.